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by **Haileysmum** » Sat Oct 14, 2017 8:24 pm

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My friend was at an exercise class on thursday night & had a heart attack during it.the doctors couldnt get her back for 45minutes they have her sedated & are hoping to try & wake her tomorrow but they dont know as yet if she will be brain damaged or not.i am in complete shock & so worried as to what the outcome will be.

.im not really religious but if anyone wants to say a prayer or send positive thoughts Lil's way it would be appreciated very much

by **Sabbi** » Sun Oct 15, 2017 4:39 pm

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OMG Haileysmam, what age is she? I am saying a prayer for her now. and thinking of you too.

That's so awful. Really scary stuff.

by **Yvonne** » Sun Oct 15, 2017 4:50 pm

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Thats so scary.. praying she will be ok x

by **Haileysmum** » Mon Oct 16, 2017 6:24 am

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Shes only 40.They tried to wake her yesterday but she didnt come round she was twitching so they resedated her & will try to wake her again tomorrow.her mum said the Dr wasnt giving her any hope.if she doesnt wake today they are going to run scans to see if there is any brain activity.

My heart is breaking,her dad has very advanced dementia so he hasnt been told whats happened to her.

by **munchin** » Tue Oct 17, 2017 9:21 am

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Oh gosh Haileysmam that's very frightening. Will say a prayer for your friend (and her family and friends)

by **Haileysmum** » Tue Oct 17, 2017 5:57 pm

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Dr said brain scan shows brain damage but they dont know how much.they said most people would have woken up by now but that they are going to give her more time.they have changed medication as it was making her have fits & have sedated her again.her mum said Dr not giving any hope.

Its just so sad,im devastated- she is a strong person so im hoping that she will be one of those patients that surprises all the doctors & makes a miraculous recovery.

by **Sabbi** » Tue Oct 17, 2017 6:52 pm

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Janey, only 40, that's so scary. Could happen to anyone. I am saying a prayer for her and for her family and you as well Haileysmam.

Fingers and toes crossed that she will wake up.

Its so sad

by **allyj** » Tue Oct 17, 2017 7:35 pm

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Oh haileysmum that's so awful, the poor girl, you must be all sick with worry. Sending positive thoughts her way. Xxx

by **Haileysmum** » Wed Oct 18, 2017 6:39 pm

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Lils deteriorated a bit more today no reaction from pupils to light & brain scan showed less activity.they will do more tests tomorrorw but its really not looking good for her.

Im just praying for a miracle now xx

by **Sabbi** » Thu Oct 19, 2017 1:37 pm

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I cannot even imagine how awful this is. I was at an exercise class this morning and I was taking it easy but it makes you think, it can happen to anyone. God love her and her family.

by **Haileysmum** » Sat Oct 21, 2017 5:29 pm

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My amazing,kind,clever, funny friend passed away yesterday.im completely devastated.its so unfair my heart is just broken.

by **allyj** » Sat Oct 21, 2017 7:10 pm

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Oh haileysmum I'm so sorry for both you and your friend. I lost my best friend unexpectedly when I was 24 so I have some idea what you are going through. It was her 16th anniversary yesterday. All I can say at thus time is I'm sorry. Mind yourself, its a very dark and difficult time. Bug hugs to you.

by **Financial Companion** » Sun Oct 22, 2017 12:28 pm

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Oh Haileysmum, so sorry for your loss!

by **Sabbi** » Mon Oct 23, 2017 7:12 am

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So so sorry Haileysmam. Its just so hard to grasp that someone so young could have died like this.

I am thinking of you and your friend and her family too at this terrible terrible time.

Big hugs. x

by **Haileysmum** » Mon Oct 23, 2017 5:07 pm

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Its just so tragically sad.Was on to Lils mum today.the coronary office rang & her sister & neice & nephews need to get ECGs in case its a hereditary heart condition.they cant register the death till friday & then they can talk to funeral home.they still havent told her dad,he sounds so far gone with dementia that i dont think he would even understand what they are telling him.